WIDOWHOOD OF BRAHMINS

Annappan Embramthiri, second son of Narayanan Embramthiri, a ‘Tulu’ or ‘Madhwa’ Brahmin of Kalalarikkal Madom was married to Krishnaveni Ammal. He had a premature death without any issues. Therefore, his right, title and interest in Kalarikkal Madom and Chittayil property at Kumbalam north area vested in his two sisters, Nagaveni Ammal and Kamalakshi Ammal.

As per the customs and traditions, the unfortunate widow had neither right, title or interest nor life estate on her husband’s property. After cremation ceremony of Annappan Embramthiri, his wife’s head was clean shaven and she was draped in a white sari, before sending her back to her house at Uduppi. The old people say that it was a terrible scene, highly unfair and improper act. Remarriage for the widow was tabooed by their society. The new enactments softened the cruel hearts and put an end to such sadistic pleasures. 

Excerpts from

MEMOIRS

An autobiography

by

Joseph J. Thayamkeril

Lawyer, Kochi, Kerala, India.

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